If a father of 2 is secretly trying to contact girls thru' online chats and dating, can he be called loyal?

A 44 year old man, father of two children has been secretly and continuously doing online dating and chats with LOCAL girls in his office for last one year, going out early and coming back late, most of the time nobody knows his whereabouts, goes frequently out of the town saying he will be back within a week and then for several weeks he is missing, reluctant to give enough expenses to his wife who sometimes is compelled to borrow in order to support the house and two children and is extremely neglecting toward the family when within the town. The man is announcing high moral values in public, once he threw away a worker from his office who was having an extra-marital affair, denounces watching o sites and chatting in the office, but himself is doing the very same things secretly, what conclusion can be drawn about him from these?